Sometimes the problem isn't the problem but it's our attitude towards the problem that really is the problem.Life will be life as people will be people. Their will be easy times where everything seems to flow together and there will be challenging moments where everything seems to be falling a part. The question in it all is how will you respond? It is so easy to cast our issues and excuse our behavior by blaming an external source like "the twinkie made me do it" or "it's the devil" and it could be those things but often times it is mindsets and people. Sometimes we are the innocent bystanders of the decisions of others and they happen to effect us, this does not make us victims. We just need to assess and make a recovery plan. There are other times where we are the not so innocent bystander of our own decisions but the same method applies to coming out of that as well.Stay focused. Let nothing detour you from your goal. Stand strong, but remember you are never standing alone.